Struggle of having too many friends

The hardest part about having too many friends is, we got to communicate, and we got to put in the effort with each individual friend.
We must let them know that we will always be there for them when they need us and that they can always count on us no matter what.
They have to understand that life gets busy, that we can’t always spend time with them, because we have other friends to maintain.
Sometimes others grow bitterness towards us because we are spending time with other people and not them.
Without effort, without communication, without understanding, that friendship will drift way.
We got to take time out of our day to spend time with others.
The hard part is, we got to balance our time wisely, the hardest part in having too many friends is, and they probably don’t understand our struggle, of balancing each friend, scheduling a day for each person to spend time with them just to keep that friendship alive.
Hard part having too many friends is we know that some people will leave, because we lack of communication, we lack of effort, and because they feel we don’t spend time with them.
If they tell us that we don’t care about them, they don’t understand us.
True friendship never dies if patience is there.
True friendship never dies when you trust the person, when you don’t question their honesty, loyalty, and trust.
True friendship will never die, if you understand us.
That you understand that life gets busy too.
You should know that we still care about you, when we still talk to you even if we are busy, we try to make the friendship work as much as we can, with all that we can.
We need people that can understand us.
And, most of all, the hardest thing about having too many friends is, we will get hurt over and over.
We will eventually lose each one of them, because everyone is temporary, and we will go to a lot of funerals one day. Not a lot of people think about that.
We don't choose to have a lot of friends, it just happens.
A person enters our life and decides to stay there, and we make memories.

-Skyheart

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